Be Focused, Take the Control

Strike a powerful pose, stand out and redefine the notion of beauty too irresistible to ignore

Last week I was luckily secured an interview with a successful woman in martial arts, she has been honored with many amazing titles and awards in BrazilianJiu-Jitsu and kickboxing, especially she is a rare female Jiu-Jitsu Black Belt, and brings the female and small person perspective to my value of women. I am completely astounded by her incredible experience and achievements, and got inspiration and encouragement from our intimate talk.

  When we are growing to be stronger, we are on the way to take more responsibilities; we need to balance ourselves between work, family and friends, time management is crucial. Especially being a woman, how could we manage all this and also to be successful in our own professional field? Several inspirational answers from her are profoundly rooted in my heart, which are so true if you apply them in your daily lives.

•          Be focused on your goals and keep your dreamed successful image in mind. Your body will receive this signal subconsciously, which will endow you power to overcome whatever barrier ahead to keep you going.

•         Take the control, proactive not reactive to the world, it is your choice to tell the world I am proud of being who I am. I choose to focus on what I want to be, to be positive, to be successful, the magic is all about your choices.

•            Trust and share. You trust other people, ultimately you will magically get these trust back and people’s respect. Share is another secret, which will help you have long lasting friendship and happiness.

•           It is all about you who can make big difference in your own world.

  Let us rock the world, ladies, we are ready! 

You are that Unique Sparkling Star

Do you come across a moment that you need to make a life-changing decision or pull the trigger on some things to be done? Do you dread to face failures in life? Because nobody can tell you what is your future will be, will it become better or worse? This is a big unpredictable question mark coming into our minds when thinking about change and future, challenges and opportunities, success and failure, what can make us cheering up and keeping going? 

In the depth of our hearts, we are eager to do something special or obtain a sense of achievement, but sometimes we are vacillating for a long time, maybe due to lack of courage and determination, or just dread of failures. Everyone is growing and learning in your own unique life journey. Essentially, you are that unique sparkling star in the darkness. You are your own master, no matter what happen to you, calm down, take a deep breath, you are stronger than you could image. Over the next few months, I will take you into this magical journey finding your miraculous inner strength, actually nothing can defeat you, as long as you believe I have my perpetuating inner power, I can do it. Whatever with the past has gone, the best is always yet to come.       

“God doesn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but he does promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.”